Bill Hansberry

Fullarton House

22 Gordon Street, Glenelg

South Australia 5045

 

Phone: 0433 399 767

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Understanding the Four Goals of Misbehaviour:

Responding in Calm and Clever ways

 

To book this workshop please contact Bill Hansberry

Tricky kids unconscious thinking often goes something like this:

I only matter when I’m:

  • keeping people busy with me (Attention)

  • in charge, doing only what I want and challenging authority (Power)

  • Delivering payback to those who’ve thwarted me (Revenge)

  • Proving the world ‘I can’t’ and that everyone should just give up on me (Displays of Inadequacy)

 

Whatever theory of human motivation you subscribe to; one common idea has endured the decades: humans are hardwired to seek a sense of connection belonging within the social groups they exist in.

 

When we get our heads around the idea that many of the tricky behaviours we see from young people are related to discouragement and mistaken beliefs about ‘how I belong here’, a new world of possibilities opens up and we no longer take their tricky behaviours so personally.

This fun and dynamic workshop teaches what the fathers if individual Psychology – Alfred Adler and Rudolph Driekurs first taught early in the last century.

 

We will look at the 4 goals of misbehaviour and the hidden beliefs and self-talk that lie beneath. Why do we need to know this? So our own responses to these trick misbehaviours don’t reinforce them – like they have so far! We only change the behaviour of young people by altering our own behaviour first - by responding in calm and clever ways.

 

“An engaging presentation, hands on and direct. Bill was excellent as a facilitator.”

 

Head of House - Mount Carmel College SA.

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